1 Thessalonians 2:3-8
For our exhortation was not of deceit, nor of uncleanness, nor in guile: But as we were allowed of God to be put in trust with the gospel, even so we speak; not as pleasing men, but God, which trieth our hearts. For neither at any time used we flattering words, as ye know, nor a cloke of covetousness; God is witness: Nor of men sought we glory, neither of you, nor yet of others, when we might have been burdensome, as the apostles of Christ. But we were gentle among you, even as a nurse cherisheth her children: So being affectionately desirous of you, we were willing to have imparted unto you, not the gospel of God only, but also our own souls, because ye were dear unto us.

It’s not a religion, it’s a relationship. Yes, first with Christ, but then we have these relationships with other people, particularly those with whom we share the Gospel. Paul was diligent about his mission to share the good news of Jesus in all the different places that he went. And many did hear him gladly and believed on Jesus. But Paul wasn’t all about duty. He cared about the people to whom he preached and ministered. He gave himself and his life to them. They meant so much to him, and he treasured and valued each one.

Sharing the Gospel is not just a cold delivery of truth, but it is about sharing ourselves with others, building relationships, caring about one another. Yes, speaking the truth is paramount. Yes, it is God’s Word and God’s power that enables souls to be saved. But as the messenger, Paul’s heart was important, too. It’s about how we approach people and engage with them, driven by love, care, and concern for their eternal soul and for their life in this world they live out in the meantime.

The end goal is not our own glory or to impress others with what we’ve accomplished. It is the salvation of souls. Paul always rejoiced in the people who came to know Christ, and each one was special and significant. In his writings, he often included lists of names of those who touched his own life, wanting to remember and recognize their impact. As exemplified by Paul, second to our love for Christ should be this love for people. The mission and the message are important, but may we give of ourselves to others and cherish the special people God brings into our lives.